Photo by Kyle Glenn on Unsplash Whether you've been through abuse or not, I can't stress enough the importance of cultivating healthy self-esteem. And it's not something I managed to accomplish myself, fully, until I was 32, almost 33. Now, please realize that cultivating self-love IS NOT the same as being narcissistic. First, you gotta know that everyone, … Continue reading How I Learned to Love Myself Pt. 1
Last of the Nutshelling
Photo by Maxim Lugina on Unsplash I'd burn every single "good" memory of them if I could because they were nothing but bullshit. Towards the end of my relationSHIT with EN (ex-narcissist), he'd been backed off from the cheating accusations for a while, but they weren't entirely gone. But they increased again after we'd gotten to move back … Continue reading Last of the Nutshelling
It’s Been a Long Day
So I just finished writing and preparing the last bit of my abuse recap. This was the hardest one to write, honestly. And it's so late that there's not a chance in hell I'm going to do a stream tonight. But as difficult and draining as it's been to write about these past few weeks, … Continue reading It’s Been a Long Day
Trump’s Shutdown Is Endangering Low Income People
This just came across my Tumblr feed and considering that I am a low income mom of 3 children who depends on foodstamps, I find myself more than a little alarmed. Because, yeah, I have already received my February SNAP money. And it's not even February yet. And now I'm having to realize that there … Continue reading Trump’s Shutdown Is Endangering Low Income People
Nutshelling Pt. 2
Ok, it's now Friday as I'm writing this, my next post is due tomorrow and, of course, I've not written jack shit for it yet. Yay, procrastination! Honestly, even though it's for a good reason towards part of the purpose I created this blog for, the thought of trying to hash through and recount the … Continue reading Nutshelling Pt. 2
A Nutshell of My Hell, Pt. 1
So, here goes. I’m going to go into some background of my experiences with abuse. I’m going to go over the nutshell basics of it as best as I can. But even with trying to nutshell it, there’s going to be A LOT. And, I’m not gonna lie, this is not going to be nice. … Continue reading A Nutshell of My Hell, Pt. 1
“Be a Lady,” They Said
This kind of shit is why I'm a feminist. Be a lady they said. Remove your body hair. Shave your legs. Shave your armpits. Shave your bikini line. Wax your face. Wax your arms. Wax your eyebrows. Get rid of your mustache. Bleach this. Bleach that. Lighten your skin. Tan your skin. Eradicate your scars. Cover … Continue reading “Be a Lady,” They Said
Where the Hell Do I Start?
Photo by rawpixel.com on Pexels.com I've already got several things listed on my phone's notepad to write about, but good Goddess, where do I start? LoL I'm hoping to upload at least once a week. That should be doable for my flaky arse to manage, for the most part, right? I think every Saturday should … Continue reading Where the Hell Do I Start?
Allow Me to Introduce Myself…
I'm a woman of wealth and taste.... Wait. No, I'm not. Taste, that's relatively debatable. Wealth? Definitely fucking not! What I am is a 35-year-old single mum. I'm a Pagan. I'm Bisexual. I'm a YouTuber and gamer. I'm a survivor of abuse. I am a woman who lives with multiple mental health issues -- severe … Continue reading Allow Me to Introduce Myself…
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